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		<title>By: Social Douche</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/why-youre-a-social-media-douche/#comment-263376</link>
		<dc:creator>Social Douche</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Feb 2011 01:55:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Narcissism is alive and well in today&#039;s digital culture. It appears http://www.socialdouche.com is making an attempt at policing social networks and beyond.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Narcissism is alive and well in today&#8217;s digital culture. It appears <a href="http://www.socialdouche.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.socialdouche.com</a> is making an attempt at policing social networks and beyond.</p>
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		<title>By: Bill Cammack</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/why-youre-a-social-media-douche/#comment-203321</link>
		<dc:creator>Bill Cammack</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Oct 2010 06:34:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent points, Julien. :)

Unfortunately, the ability to switch between engaging enough to eventually sell a product and actually interacting with people that you would like to have a drink with IRL requires that person to have that type of &quot;IRL drink&quot; personality to begin with.

This leaves the non-gregarious businessperson without material.. without interest in whether you graduated from school or met someone new at a conference or sold your startup.

The best you can get from someone like that is feigned interest, if they even bother to play it off that they&#039;re interacting with you for anything other than business purposes.

Little do they know that you&#039;re actually right.. The value here is found in proper engagement with a quality (read: curated) audience.  While it&#039;s obvious to us that they&#039;re shilling, because we know a lot of people that do both, they think they&#039;re authentically interacting because they&#039;re just as fake IRL as their online presentation suggests.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent points, Julien. :)</p>
<p>Unfortunately, the ability to switch between engaging enough to eventually sell a product and actually interacting with people that you would like to have a drink with IRL requires that person to have that type of &#8220;IRL drink&#8221; personality to begin with.</p>
<p>This leaves the non-gregarious businessperson without material.. without interest in whether you graduated from school or met someone new at a conference or sold your startup.</p>
<p>The best you can get from someone like that is feigned interest, if they even bother to play it off that they&#8217;re interacting with you for anything other than business purposes.</p>
<p>Little do they know that you&#8217;re actually right.. The value here is found in proper engagement with a quality (read: curated) audience.  While it&#8217;s obvious to us that they&#8217;re shilling, because we know a lot of people that do both, they think they&#8217;re authentically interacting because they&#8217;re just as fake IRL as their online presentation suggests.</p>
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		<title>By: Jean</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/why-youre-a-social-media-douche/#comment-203269</link>
		<dc:creator>Jean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Oct 2010 18:15:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>New motto (which, considering my chosen field, should have been the old motto): &quot;Do great work in obscurity.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>New motto (which, considering my chosen field, should have been the old motto): &#8220;Do great work in obscurity.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Christopher S. Penn</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/why-youre-a-social-media-douche/#comment-203261</link>
		<dc:creator>Christopher S. Penn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Oct 2010 17:29:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m a douche.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a douche.</p>
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		<title>By: Dave</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/why-youre-a-social-media-douche/#comment-175188</link>
		<dc:creator>Dave</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2009 21:03:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>#1 I think people who use the word douche all the time are lame. That was a fun adjective until it was mainstreamed. Now it is, well to use your term, douchey. #2 Proofread. Grammar mistakes are cred killers. #3 Other than that, good thinking/nice post.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>#1 I think people who use the word douche all the time are lame. That was a fun adjective until it was mainstreamed. Now it is, well to use your term, douchey. #2 Proofread. Grammar mistakes are cred killers. #3 Other than that, good thinking/nice post.</p>
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		<title>By: Jessica</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/why-youre-a-social-media-douche/#comment-175090</link>
		<dc:creator>Jessica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Dec 2009 04:27:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love this post.  The thing I have to add to your list is the morons that tweet &quot;I only need 28 more followers to reach 1,000!&quot; or &quot;It&#039;s been like forever since I&#039;ve been on Twitter&quot;...and yet it&#039;s only been 6 hours. Ick.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love this post.  The thing I have to add to your list is the morons that tweet &#8220;I only need 28 more followers to reach 1,000!&#8221; or &#8220;It&#8217;s been like forever since I&#8217;ve been on Twitter&#8221;&#8230;and yet it&#8217;s only been 6 hours. Ick.</p>
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		<title>By: mattdollinger</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/why-youre-a-social-media-douche/#comment-175089</link>
		<dc:creator>mattdollinger</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Dec 2009 04:07:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>B,

Nice work on actually saying what so many people (good people - non douchie douches) think and doing so in a non-douchie way.  

That being said... the thing that you nail on the head is this, &quot;we’re trying to leverage too much, and it results in sending out messages that are inappropriate to the venue, that annoy, etc.&quot;

Not only are we (I&#039;m speaking broad term - as in the collective) trying to say too much to too many, but we are actually watering-down our effectiveness.  We aren&#039;t becoming &quot;experts&quot; on any topics, we are trying to be &quot;gods of knowledge&quot; attempting to impress the masses.

Whether you call it &quot;niche&quot; &quot;specialty&quot; or &quot;expertise&quot; - we need to become trusted advisors to our clients, our networks, and all of those around us.  Thanks for calling attention to this and putting in ALL of our faces.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>B,</p>
<p>Nice work on actually saying what so many people (good people &#8211; non douchie douches) think and doing so in a non-douchie way.  </p>
<p>That being said&#8230; the thing that you nail on the head is this, &#8220;we’re trying to leverage too much, and it results in sending out messages that are inappropriate to the venue, that annoy, etc.&#8221;</p>
<p>Not only are we (I&#8217;m speaking broad term &#8211; as in the collective) trying to say too much to too many, but we are actually watering-down our effectiveness.  We aren&#8217;t becoming &#8220;experts&#8221; on any topics, we are trying to be &#8220;gods of knowledge&#8221; attempting to impress the masses.</p>
<p>Whether you call it &#8220;niche&#8221; &#8220;specialty&#8221; or &#8220;expertise&#8221; &#8211; we need to become trusted advisors to our clients, our networks, and all of those around us.  Thanks for calling attention to this and putting in ALL of our faces.</p>
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		<title>By: Jen</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/why-youre-a-social-media-douche/#comment-174697</link>
		<dc:creator>Jen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 17:27:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awesome. Absolutely needed to be said. I needed to hear it. Thank you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awesome. Absolutely needed to be said. I needed to hear it. Thank you!</p>
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		<title>By: Eric</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/why-youre-a-social-media-douche/#comment-174694</link>
		<dc:creator>Eric</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 16:32:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post. People are running away with this numbers game of social media. We are way overdue for a correction in this market when people figure out that the number of friends/followers doesnt matter in itself. What matters is how you turn that into an advantage for your company, blog, etc. The people who are thinking about that now are the ones who will emerge from the hype.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post. People are running away with this numbers game of social media. We are way overdue for a correction in this market when people figure out that the number of friends/followers doesnt matter in itself. What matters is how you turn that into an advantage for your company, blog, etc. The people who are thinking about that now are the ones who will emerge from the hype.</p>
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		<title>By: Liz</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/why-youre-a-social-media-douche/#comment-174684</link>
		<dc:creator>Liz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 12:39:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You say douches offer a lot of @replies but that is the basis for having a conversation...directing your response to someone who said something interesting.

You paint a black &amp; white, good guy-bad guy, either/or situation. The polarities are the extremes, not the way most people use Twitter. In this case, I think middle of the road, a balance of sharing information &amp; personal interaction, is the way to go.

There are a variety of ways one can use a social network. Don&#039;t follow those who use it in a crass way &amp; try not to be annoyed at their popularity.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You say douches offer a lot of @replies but that is the basis for having a conversation&#8230;directing your response to someone who said something interesting.</p>
<p>You paint a black &amp; white, good guy-bad guy, either/or situation. The polarities are the extremes, not the way most people use Twitter. In this case, I think middle of the road, a balance of sharing information &amp; personal interaction, is the way to go.</p>
<p>There are a variety of ways one can use a social network. Don&#8217;t follow those who use it in a crass way &amp; try not to be annoyed at their popularity.</p>
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		<title>By: Jon burg</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/why-youre-a-social-media-douche/#comment-174683</link>
		<dc:creator>Jon burg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 12:30:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow. As an admitted social obssesive on Twitter, I can learn a lot. This is why my facebook is more private and more fun. There&#039;s nothing wrong w networking and building ones profesional network but it does look and feel douchy when you never come across as a real person. Ironic how ppl trying to build brand personalities don&#039;t seem to have any of their own.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow. As an admitted social obssesive on Twitter, I can learn a lot. This is why my facebook is more private and more fun. There&#8217;s nothing wrong w networking and building ones profesional network but it does look and feel douchy when you never come across as a real person. Ironic how ppl trying to build brand personalities don&#8217;t seem to have any of their own.</p>
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		<title>By: Mel</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/why-youre-a-social-media-douche/#comment-174676</link>
		<dc:creator>Mel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 09:34:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I still can&#039;t figure out what the heck the point of a retweet is.</description>
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		<title>By: Ian M Rountree</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/why-youre-a-social-media-douche/#comment-174669</link>
		<dc:creator>Ian M Rountree</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 02:20:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Honestly, I&#039;d rather be that dude who shows up at CES or LeWeb in a few years, gives a killer speech, and leaves half the attendees wondering &quot;Who the hell was THAT&quot; while the people who matter (read as; the people who I&#039;ve actually connected with) just smile and nod.

I admit that&#039;s probably a bizarre scenario, as getting on stage requires a certain notoriety, I just think it&#039;d be fun to upset the norms. Play the good example of the power of the right super-fans versus having everyone as a disengaged follower.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Honestly, I&#8217;d rather be that dude who shows up at CES or LeWeb in a few years, gives a killer speech, and leaves half the attendees wondering &#8220;Who the hell was THAT&#8221; while the people who matter (read as; the people who I&#8217;ve actually connected with) just smile and nod.</p>
<p>I admit that&#8217;s probably a bizarre scenario, as getting on stage requires a certain notoriety, I just think it&#8217;d be fun to upset the norms. Play the good example of the power of the right super-fans versus having everyone as a disengaged follower.</p>
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		<title>By: Don Martelli</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/why-youre-a-social-media-douche/#comment-174667</link>
		<dc:creator>Don Martelli</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 00:16:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good post. Props for the KP and Jay Z analogy. You are dead on. Love it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good post. Props for the KP and Jay Z analogy. You are dead on. Love it.</p>
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		<title>By: Marcus Couch</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/why-youre-a-social-media-douche/#comment-174658</link>
		<dc:creator>Marcus Couch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Dec 2009 18:24:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I needed to hear this shit today. A-Fucking-Men dude.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I needed to hear this shit today. A-Fucking-Men dude.</p>
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		<title>By: Dave Doolin</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/why-youre-a-social-media-douche/#comment-174657</link>
		<dc:creator>Dave Doolin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Dec 2009 18:22:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Obscure.

Broke.

There&#039;s more to rap than complexity.  Great has more than one meaning.  Context matters.  We all have an opinion, whose is more important? 

A long time ago, your patron determined the marketability of your work.

Now, the masses determine it.

What&#039;s the difference?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Obscure.</p>
<p>Broke.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s more to rap than complexity.  Great has more than one meaning.  Context matters.  We all have an opinion, whose is more important? </p>
<p>A long time ago, your patron determined the marketability of your work.</p>
<p>Now, the masses determine it.</p>
<p>What&#8217;s the difference?</p>
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		<title>By: Jusitn</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/why-youre-a-social-media-douche/#comment-174656</link>
		<dc:creator>Jusitn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Dec 2009 18:06:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The great thing about you is that sometimes you drop some of these basic instructions before leaving earth and tie it Jay-Z vs. Jay Dee. For that alone I pay attention.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The great thing about you is that sometimes you drop some of these basic instructions before leaving earth and tie it Jay-Z vs. Jay Dee. For that alone I pay attention.</p>
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		<title>By: Amanda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amanda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Dec 2009 17:17:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A lot of people judge success on how renowned a person is. I think the association comes with the connection of great people doing GREAT (huge impact) things. The assumption is that if someone does something great, then the whole world will notice the benefit. 

Of course, this isn&#039;t the case. I know so many people who do what they can and really make an impact in people&#039;s lives, but are quite obscure.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A lot of people judge success on how renowned a person is. I think the association comes with the connection of great people doing GREAT (huge impact) things. The assumption is that if someone does something great, then the whole world will notice the benefit. </p>
<p>Of course, this isn&#8217;t the case. I know so many people who do what they can and really make an impact in people&#8217;s lives, but are quite obscure.</p>
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