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		<title>By: Kara</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/give-in-to-the-machine/#comment-410440</link>
		<dc:creator>Kara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2012 19:55:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This might be exactly why I am struggling right now. 2 years ago I left a corporate job as my husband makes good money. I switched to personal training as I love helping people get fit but I have way too much free time on my hands and no real incentive to make money... and I am a bit lost and depressed.  Will see how I can apply this.  Thanks Julien.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This might be exactly why I am struggling right now. 2 years ago I left a corporate job as my husband makes good money. I switched to personal training as I love helping people get fit but I have way too much free time on my hands and no real incentive to make money&#8230; and I am a bit lost and depressed.  Will see how I can apply this.  Thanks Julien.</p>
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		<title>By: Franis Engel</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/give-in-to-the-machine/#comment-323635</link>
		<dc:creator>Franis Engel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Sep 2011 18:34:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>People don&#039;t work on what they really want because when something really matters, it&#039;s survival-scary. 

Some solutions are to create a group of people who help each other work toward their dreams - Barbara Sher has a workable model for that. I also use Mark Forster&#039;s &quot;Auto-Focus&quot; list-making tool quite a bit. (I seem to always need to have one thing I&#039;m procrastinating!) If you have lots of interests as I do, I agree that you need any sort of system to track your progress. But if you&#039;ve got one passion - allow absorption-flow create timeless time.

I would have graduated high school two years early, but my parents died so it didn&#039;t happen. There was nobody making me complete the one class of 2 years of required English. Fortunately, the teachers were happy to have me in their art, photography &amp; ceramics studios while I cut all other classes. During those two years (in 1972) I won more than $4000. entering art competitions &amp; scholarships on my own. Then I had a blast in art college with an insurance scholarship when I bought a house at an auction for that $4000- afterwards I became a self-employed sign painter.   

IMHO, the secret is, don&#039;t get a job - start your own business. You have to expand or die when you&#039;re working for yourself - so you learn to use your time well and think originally.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>People don&#8217;t work on what they really want because when something really matters, it&#8217;s survival-scary. </p>
<p>Some solutions are to create a group of people who help each other work toward their dreams &#8211; Barbara Sher has a workable model for that. I also use Mark Forster&#8217;s &#8220;Auto-Focus&#8221; list-making tool quite a bit. (I seem to always need to have one thing I&#8217;m procrastinating!) If you have lots of interests as I do, I agree that you need any sort of system to track your progress. But if you&#8217;ve got one passion &#8211; allow absorption-flow create timeless time.</p>
<p>I would have graduated high school two years early, but my parents died so it didn&#8217;t happen. There was nobody making me complete the one class of 2 years of required English. Fortunately, the teachers were happy to have me in their art, photography &amp; ceramics studios while I cut all other classes. During those two years (in 1972) I won more than $4000. entering art competitions &amp; scholarships on my own. Then I had a blast in art college with an insurance scholarship when I bought a house at an auction for that $4000- afterwards I became a self-employed sign painter.   </p>
<p>IMHO, the secret is, don&#8217;t get a job &#8211; start your own business. You have to expand or die when you&#8217;re working for yourself &#8211; so you learn to use your time well and think originally.</p>
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		<title>By: Michelle</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/give-in-to-the-machine/#comment-261635</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Feb 2011 21:58:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>give into?  sounds like it should be more like, become your own machine. :D  cyborg right?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>give into?  sounds like it should be more like, become your own machine. :D  cyborg right?</p>
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		<title>By: John Haydon</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/give-in-to-the-machine/#comment-198589</link>
		<dc:creator>John Haydon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Sep 2010 14:10:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Julien - This is totally relevant to me right now. Next Tuesday, I&#039;m speaking at #140conf in Boston. It&#039;s only for 10 minutes, but I&#039;m scared to death. Last night good friend of mine said &quot;You&#039;ll do great. You&#039;re smart and funny...&quot; so I&#039;m sure most of my fear is unfounded. That said, if I didn&#039;t have the external constraint of this commitment, I wouldn&#039;t have to face my prince of darkness - I wouldn&#039;t have the opportunity to grow inside and out. Thanks, Julien.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Julien &#8211; This is totally relevant to me right now. Next Tuesday, I&#8217;m speaking at #140conf in Boston. It&#8217;s only for 10 minutes, but I&#8217;m scared to death. Last night good friend of mine said &#8220;You&#8217;ll do great. You&#8217;re smart and funny&#8230;&#8221; so I&#8217;m sure most of my fear is unfounded. That said, if I didn&#8217;t have the external constraint of this commitment, I wouldn&#8217;t have to face my prince of darkness &#8211; I wouldn&#8217;t have the opportunity to grow inside and out. Thanks, Julien.</p>
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		<title>By: Tamsen McMahon</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/give-in-to-the-machine/#comment-194524</link>
		<dc:creator>Tamsen McMahon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 20:32:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think I need to comment just so you have TWO Tamsen&#039;s commenting on the same post. How often does *that* happen?

We all need machines--some of us have them inside of us, others need to use what&#039;s already there. I recently switched to working three days in an office and two days out. I&#039;m finding (much to my surprise) that I&#039;m far more driven and disciplined on the days I&#039;m on my own, mostly because it&#039;s now MY time, and I value that very highly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think I need to comment just so you have TWO Tamsen&#8217;s commenting on the same post. How often does *that* happen?</p>
<p>We all need machines&#8211;some of us have them inside of us, others need to use what&#8217;s already there. I recently switched to working three days in an office and two days out. I&#8217;m finding (much to my surprise) that I&#8217;m far more driven and disciplined on the days I&#8217;m on my own, mostly because it&#8217;s now MY time, and I value that very highly.</p>
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		<title>By: Joe Sorge</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joe Sorge</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 19:47:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice! thanks for pulling this one back out!</description>
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		<title>By: Tamsen</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/give-in-to-the-machine/#comment-194519</link>
		<dc:creator>Tamsen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 19:46:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There is something to be said for deadlines and time constraint. Just allow some time for flexibility to the social pressures. Clearing your mind actually enhances your ability to move through the structure.  It&#039;s like a dozen fresh baked cookies, eating one is much more pleasurable and ultimately satisfying than eating the dozen. Find your inner discipline.  Thanks for another insightful post, Julien.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is something to be said for deadlines and time constraint. Just allow some time for flexibility to the social pressures. Clearing your mind actually enhances your ability to move through the structure.  It&#8217;s like a dozen fresh baked cookies, eating one is much more pleasurable and ultimately satisfying than eating the dozen. Find your inner discipline.  Thanks for another insightful post, Julien.</p>
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		<title>By: Teresa Basich</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/give-in-to-the-machine/#comment-194518</link>
		<dc:creator>Teresa Basich</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 19:46:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Man, is this relevant to me right now or what (relevant to me, not or what ;-)). I work from home and it&#039;s been quite the experience to set boundaries around my personal goals and my work. The hardest part of it all, really, has been realizing that the freedom I&#039;ve been giving myself at the end of my workday has done nothing but paralyze me. With too many options come too many reasons to NOT do something. There&#039;s also incredible stability and reduced anxiety in a routine -- the bits of routine that we rarely appreciate, and that free the mind to really get stuff done.

Awesome post, Julien. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Man, is this relevant to me right now or what (relevant to me, not or what ;-)). I work from home and it&#8217;s been quite the experience to set boundaries around my personal goals and my work. The hardest part of it all, really, has been realizing that the freedom I&#8217;ve been giving myself at the end of my workday has done nothing but paralyze me. With too many options come too many reasons to NOT do something. There&#8217;s also incredible stability and reduced anxiety in a routine &#8212; the bits of routine that we rarely appreciate, and that free the mind to really get stuff done.</p>
<p>Awesome post, Julien. :)</p>
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		<title>By: Carol</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/give-in-to-the-machine/#comment-194517</link>
		<dc:creator>Carol</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 19:45:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent post!  One thing I learned a long time ago is that one needs to put some structure into one&#039;s working day, if it&#039;s not imposed by the outside, such as with a full-time job.  Now, I&#039;m not saying that I always succeed in being as productive as I could be, but at least I&#039;m aware of it.

Also, now I&#039;m motivated by you and Colleen to read Twyla Tharpe!

Time to get into the studio and finish that sculpture I&#039;ve been working on for my husband&#039;s birthday in a couple of weeks . . . 

Keep up the good work!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent post!  One thing I learned a long time ago is that one needs to put some structure into one&#8217;s working day, if it&#8217;s not imposed by the outside, such as with a full-time job.  Now, I&#8217;m not saying that I always succeed in being as productive as I could be, but at least I&#8217;m aware of it.</p>
<p>Also, now I&#8217;m motivated by you and Colleen to read Twyla Tharpe!</p>
<p>Time to get into the studio and finish that sculpture I&#8217;ve been working on for my husband&#8217;s birthday in a couple of weeks . . . </p>
<p>Keep up the good work!</p>
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		<title>By: @TheGirlPie</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/give-in-to-the-machine/#comment-194516</link>
		<dc:creator>@TheGirlPie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 19:43:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amen and hallelujah! Starting my solo business (13+ years ago) gave me structure; running my business gives me... too much freedom to comment &amp; tweet!

The GREAT part is that, as self-directed createpreneurs, or whatever they&#039;re calling us these days, WE get to build our Own Machine to give in to!  Yay! 

Thanks Julien, and for the Twyla Tharp recco for Colleen, too; that moves it up my list as well. 

Your student,
(not that annoying one in the front),
~GirlPie</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amen and hallelujah! Starting my solo business (13+ years ago) gave me structure; running my business gives me&#8230; too much freedom to comment &amp; tweet!</p>
<p>The GREAT part is that, as self-directed createpreneurs, or whatever they&#8217;re calling us these days, WE get to build our Own Machine to give in to!  Yay! </p>
<p>Thanks Julien, and for the Twyla Tharp recco for Colleen, too; that moves it up my list as well. </p>
<p>Your student,<br />
(not that annoying one in the front),<br />
~GirlPie</p>
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		<title>By: Mair Alight</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/give-in-to-the-machine/#comment-175238</link>
		<dc:creator>Mair Alight</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Jan 2010 20:43:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For years I&#039;ve thought I most highly valued freedom, autonomy, choice. The more structure I place in my life, the more I value my sense of order and ease that arises from its base. When I moved to choosing structure to support me instead of something that was compelling me, the more I have enjoyed it and benefitted from it. Hey-it&#039;s allowing me the freedom to comment on this right now! LOL
Thanks for the post and I&#039;m grateful for Chris Brogan directing me to it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For years I&#8217;ve thought I most highly valued freedom, autonomy, choice. The more structure I place in my life, the more I value my sense of order and ease that arises from its base. When I moved to choosing structure to support me instead of something that was compelling me, the more I have enjoyed it and benefitted from it. Hey-it&#8217;s allowing me the freedom to comment on this right now! LOL<br />
Thanks for the post and I&#8217;m grateful for Chris Brogan directing me to it.</p>
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		<title>By: Patrick</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/give-in-to-the-machine/#comment-173311</link>
		<dc:creator>Patrick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Sep 2009 16:13:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In the same vein, my friend Tony just started doing this:
http://costructure.posterous.com/pair-structuring

Structure + routine + social pressure.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the same vein, my friend Tony just started doing this:<br />
<a href="http://costructure.posterous.com/pair-structuring" rel="nofollow">http://costructure.posterous.com/pair-structuring</a></p>
<p>Structure + routine + social pressure.</p>
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		<title>By: Eleanor Muller</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/give-in-to-the-machine/#comment-173258</link>
		<dc:creator>Eleanor Muller</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Sep 2009 08:50:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Searching of the next new, new thing becomes an eternal quest for me online. So I&#039;ve added a time management tool: my laptop&#039;s battery life. As I login I turn off  the power cable. If the battery goes flat before I logout it&#039;s a non-negotiable cut off. And no, I&#039;m not in the market for a better battery!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Searching of the next new, new thing becomes an eternal quest for me online. So I&#8217;ve added a time management tool: my laptop&#8217;s battery life. As I login I turn off  the power cable. If the battery goes flat before I logout it&#8217;s a non-negotiable cut off. And no, I&#8217;m not in the market for a better battery!</p>
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		<title>By: Jon Wortmann</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/give-in-to-the-machine/#comment-173205</link>
		<dc:creator>Jon Wortmann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Sep 2009 15:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Absolutely right.  Just started putting myself back in a schedule.  I produced the most and was the happiest in college when I was playing intercollegiate tennis, working, and had a full course load. 

The same has been true when I&#039;ve had a full work load and had a writing deadline.  

There&#039;s a new scientific american mind article about the value of social groups on overall health.  

You&#039;ve just added another benefit to plugging into community.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Absolutely right.  Just started putting myself back in a schedule.  I produced the most and was the happiest in college when I was playing intercollegiate tennis, working, and had a full course load. </p>
<p>The same has been true when I&#8217;ve had a full work load and had a writing deadline.  </p>
<p>There&#8217;s a new scientific american mind article about the value of social groups on overall health.  </p>
<p>You&#8217;ve just added another benefit to plugging into community.</p>
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		<title>By: Julien</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/give-in-to-the-machine/#comment-173041</link>
		<dc:creator>Julien</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2009 02:29:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Colleen, skip everything else in the pile and go to Twyla Tharp. You can thank me later. :)</description>
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		<title>By: Colleen Wainwright</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/give-in-to-the-machine/#comment-173032</link>
		<dc:creator>Colleen Wainwright</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 17:54:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Julien, I hope you&#039;re going straight to writing a book about *this*. 

I loved Steven Pressfield&#039;s take on it--that creative people are slinging hammers like everyone else, and that the work comes out of you imposing structure on yourself (deadlines, artificial or not; a set schedule for input/output/rest; etc), not airy-fairy visitations by the Creativity Elves. Hugh MacLeod harps on this all the time. So did Ben Franklin (I think Twyla Tharp does, too, but she&#039;s buried in the to-read stack. I need some three hours of reading in my structure!)

That&#039;s pretty good company, indicating it&#039;s a perennial issue. How&#039;s about it, kid?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Julien, I hope you&#8217;re going straight to writing a book about *this*. </p>
<p>I loved Steven Pressfield&#8217;s take on it&#8211;that creative people are slinging hammers like everyone else, and that the work comes out of you imposing structure on yourself (deadlines, artificial or not; a set schedule for input/output/rest; etc), not airy-fairy visitations by the Creativity Elves. Hugh MacLeod harps on this all the time. So did Ben Franklin (I think Twyla Tharp does, too, but she&#8217;s buried in the to-read stack. I need some three hours of reading in my structure!)</p>
<p>That&#8217;s pretty good company, indicating it&#8217;s a perennial issue. How&#8217;s about it, kid?</p>
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		<title>By: Julien</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julien</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 20:53:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Brian: I agree totally! It&#039;s that ability to constrain YOURSELF so that you can build that success. Am I right?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Brian: I agree totally! It&#8217;s that ability to constrain YOURSELF so that you can build that success. Am I right?</p>
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		<title>By: Brian Gryth</title>
		<link>http://inoveryourhead.net/give-in-to-the-machine/#comment-172983</link>
		<dc:creator>Brian Gryth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 20:36:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Julien,

Like the post.  Only question I have is, isn&#039;t the opposite also true that structure is killing you?  Isn&#039;t success a balance between structure and freedom?

Thanks, Brian</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Julien,</p>
<p>Like the post.  Only question I have is, isn&#8217;t the opposite also true that structure is killing you?  Isn&#8217;t success a balance between structure and freedom?</p>
<p>Thanks, Brian</p>
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		<title>By: Julien</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julien</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 19:36:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Alphonse: And why would you get a BA? I&#039;m going somewhere with this. :)</description>
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		<title>By: Alphonse Hà</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alphonse Hà</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 19:32:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting angle.

Truth be told, I would of finished High School just because I needed to in order to get a B.A.

I find my problem has more to do with my lack of sleep. I am very unmotivated when I&#039;m sleep deficient.

Yet, I can&#039;t do anything to remedy it... quite furstrating.</description>
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<p>Truth be told, I would of finished High School just because I needed to in order to get a B.A.</p>
<p>I find my problem has more to do with my lack of sleep. I am very unmotivated when I&#8217;m sleep deficient.</p>
<p>Yet, I can&#8217;t do anything to remedy it&#8230; quite furstrating.</p>
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