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Just make this annoying thing go away.
Just make this annoying thing go away.
Every organization in the world, every political group, every parent, thinks that they are needed forever. They aren’t.
A long time ago I talked about how the myth of the fragile Earth is doing nothing but hurting the environmental movement. They think “ZOMG, what will the Earth do without us,” but this is a very humanocentric view. The Earth will actually be fine without us. She will survive great– it’s us that will die if we don’t fix this stuff.
The same applies to a lot of situations– conservatives think the United States will go to the heathens without them. Liberals think corporations will take over the country unless they legislate. Both these things may be true (they’re in the future, so who knows), but both ignore the reactions that these incidents would provoke. Neither exist in a vacuum.
Your children will be fine, even if they do drugs. They’ll even be fine if they fall off their bike and hurt their head. Everything will be fine, pretty much no matter what.
Your child will recover and fix his mistakes. Liberals will move to Canada or Europe, creating a brain drain on those countries. Conservatives will move to the Bible Belt or to states where taxation hinders them less. All these are reactions, and none of them mean the end of the world.
Everything is a flow. Very little is an abrupt stop.
History shows that the stock market generally trends upward, with corrections here and there. Likewise, culture generally gets more lenient and progressive (with similar “corrections” like the repealing of Prop 8). This happens everywhere, but it won’t change which direction we’re going.
What you need to do is prepare and place yourself at the crossroads of trends, not worry about whether the world will vanish. There is nothing down that road.
Filed by Julien at 6:31 am under political
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This is a guest post from Chris Guillebeau, the author of the great book, The Art of Non-Conformity. Julien was in Iceland, he’ll be back tomorrow. :)
A quick read of In Over Your Head confirms that Julien is an advocate for change, in business and in life. In the battle of change vs. more-of-the-same, change wins out almost every time over here.
I read the posts and cheer along, because I’m pro-change too; the decision to question expectations and strike out toward something new has always served me well. Lately I’ve been thinking even further—not only does change offer plenty of opportunity, it comes with its own set of responsibilities as well.
In my part of the online world, I write a lot about opportunity and possibility. I choose invincibility and adventure. I also try not to be an asshole, which means that I’m not really in the business of telling people what to do. I don’t judge anyone except the closed-minded. Whatever rocks your world without harming someone else, go for it!
But along with opportunity comes responsibility. We can do things that few people in the world have ever been able to consider. We have conversations about what kind of work we’d like to do, and how we’d like to spend our time. Like Julien and me, many people who read this post spend part of their days in shops where we pay $3 for a cup of coffee and a free WiFi connection.
It’s a nice world we live in. And it’s a world that comes with responsibility, not only to think about contribution, but also about change. I don’t usually like obligations, and I wrote a book about how to ignore them. But I’m not sure we can ignore the obligation to give change the attention it deserves.
If you’ve benefitted from the same opportunities, what are the corresponding responsibilities? What can you change right now?
Filed by Julien at 11:24 am under political
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If you are taking part in this experiment, you are one of us.
We are people who believe in individual liberty and the ability to determine our own fates. We are people who want to carve our names into history, even if only a small corner of it. We want the right to create meaningful work that helps us and our communities grow.
If you believe in the web, then you believe in freedom.
The web liberates us. It allows us to be who we want to be, independent of our social circles, our geography, our family history– hell, independent even of who we currently are. The real world is about who we are now. The web liberates us to think about who we want to be.
We may not all agree on everything, but we agree on this: The web frees us to talk the way we want to, to think our own thoughts, and to become the people we were born to become.
This place is an endless frontier where everyone can claim their own space. Because the Earth has limited space, not everyone can have everything. But on the web, space is infinite, so everyone can have something to call their own.
Hyperlinks flatten hierarchies, pushing people of authority back down to a human level where they are once again accountable. It brings people with no power together, so they can build something greater than themselves. Through this, bureaucracies are broken down and antiquated authorities are wiped out.
Do you believe in this?
If you believe in all of this for yourself, there is one more thing: You must believe in it for all other people, everywhere, and forever.
And if you would work on it for yourself, you must work on it for everyone.
Filed by Julien at 2:04 pm under political
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Chris, Mitch and I have been thinking about how we can bring our books to more audiences.
We considered doing a tour– New York, Chicago, San Francisco, etc, but those were cities we visited all the time anyway.
We also remembered that a lot of you had asked if we could come see you locally, all over the States and Canada, so we wondered how to make that work, too. We considered a lot of options.
But now, we think we’ve hit upon something that might be really great for everyone involved. We think we’ve found a way to travel anywhere you’d like to have us.
From Mitch’s blog:
The three of us want to bring the concepts in the two business books to you, but we are looking for leaders. All three of us command substantial public speaking and consulting fees, but we have decided to wave both the honorariums and travel expenses (within the United States and Canada) for those who can bring 200 people together in a room.
Click here to find out more.
Filed by Julien at 12:09 pm under political, the book, travel
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The more I consider gatejumping, which we discuss in Trust Agents, the more compelling I find the idea.
Gatejumpers, for the record, are those who skip past useless middle steps (ie, gates) to get to their goals faster.
The reason I’m so excited about a possible Apple tablet, for example, is because a big player coming into this industry can wipe out middlemen. So, in the case of academic textbooks, which it seems Apple wants to get involved in, this means less debt for the average student.
Technological progress tends to cut out middlemen and leaves those who gain access to it better off (wealthier, healthier, or otherwise).
But those who profit protect their position at all costs. In the case of American healthcare, insurance companies will go to any length to protect current and future profits. They will do this using any means they have access to, since their survival may be at stake.
Middlemen benefit from the status quo, where buyers and sellers are divided. Those who protect the status quo prevent the liberation of resources and therefore, by definition, inhibit progress.
Consider Craigslist v. classified ads. Technology enabled easier connection, removing the need for buyers to pay for connection to sellers. As a result, billions of dollars are liberated and put back into the hands of people. They can then use this to better their lives in whatever way they see fit.
So, just as serfs and slaves have (largely) been replaced by robots, enabling a higher quality of life for all, many middlemen will be replaced by the social network’s ability to connect for free. This can happen because the social graph lays bare who has access to whom. We can then get to who we need, directly.
This is why LinkedIn is so powerful. As Cluetrain said ten years ago, hyperlinks subvert hierarchy. They do so by facilitating connections.
The job of the middleman is to connect two parties– real estate agents, for example, connect buyers/sellers to restricted information. But as technological progress occurs, this job becomes easier and easier– though fees will not go down.
The job of the gatejumper is to connect these same two parties without the need for the middleman. If they can create a technology that does this, all of humanity can profit… but only if the middleman can be wiped out.
The middleman will protect his position with past, current, and future profits.
Wiping out middlemen, when possible, then becomes a moral imperative.
Makes sense?
Filed by Julien at 1:41 pm under political
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You have met your match. Expect the next 4/8 years to be filled with Obama conspiracy movies from the right, just like the left have their 9/11 truth and Federal Reserve movies. The following are expected to become popular. Just remember you heard it here first.
- Obama is not a US citizen
- Obama will take away citizens’ right to firearms
- Obama is a secret muslim
- etc.
Filed by Julien at 2:25 pm under political
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Andrew said it best:
You look at this man, his obvious intelligence, his benevolence, his values, and not least of all, his charisma, and you just know he’s a born leader. He’s going to be the man that changes the way the world looks at America, and hopefully the way America looks at the rest of the world.
Filed by Julien at 2:34 pm under political
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We hear about slavery a lot in an abstract form, but I’ve never seen anything like this before– it’s from the Quebec Gazette, from the year 1767.
Filed by Julien at 11:38 am under political
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If you weren’t watching Digg tonight, you missed history being made.
For the first time in a long while, I gained a massive amount of respect for Digg users. Here’s why. Or, check out the screenshot from last night. Every single story with the HD-DVD key.
Update:This commenter says it best: “And to think, this was all caused by trying to keep these numbers hidden.“Update (2): As Bob said in the comments, only time will tell what people will think of what happened. The site has returned to normal now after a note that Kevin Rose wrote, saying he would be willing to make the site go down in flames for his users. And so, go figure, the users have now returned to talking about OS X, atheism, and burying people.
Filed by Julien at 10:31 pm under political
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